How do I get rid of shyness ive had all my life?

All my friends make fun of me bc I'm EXTREmLEY EXTREmLEY shy when I'm around good looking women, and all my friends think I'm really really good lookIng n that I look like zac Efron but I feel like my shyness is ruining my true potential to get women I want I mean I get girls but not as many as I should based on my looks, how do I change this, my friend recomended I take 1 or 2 Xanax before I go out every night and I should be good what u think